Friday, February 6, 2009

GOTCHA DAY AND MORE.......

YES! We have our daughter living with us! It has been a few busy, hectic, emotional, and great few days. Sorry for not posting, we were without internet our last few days in Dnipro. We will try to write one post and catch everyone up. Kallie is napping right now so this post is priority!

Svetlana arrived Monday night and we began everything Tues. morning. Our driver picked us up before 8 am and we were off. We went to the court to get the court order. Then we headed to the orphanage to get some papers. We had to go back to the courthouse. We went to a different office and had a new Birth Certificate made for Kallie. We stopped at the first Passport Department but she was done for the day and off on Wednesday. Each stop meant us waiting in the car. At around 5 pm we were back a the apartment. We knew things were getting done, we were just a bit frustrated at how long everything was taking.
Wednesday morning again we were off at 8 am and continued the paper chase. We went to the Notary Office first thing, then we had the papers legalized, we had to go to a Bank and close the account that Kallie had and donate the money to the orphanage. No passport headway today - we were disappointed again!
Then came Thursday morning and things were looking up. We headed right to Passport Department #1 at 8 am. Then by 9:30 we were heading to the orphanage to get Kallie and heading to Passport Department #2 where they would scan her. We returned Kallie at 12 noon and she would eat and sleep and then we would be picking her up and heading to the train station to continue our journey back to Kiev. Three days sitting in offices that have no lights or heat, or sitting in a car were longer than you can imagine. Poor Kaiden! But thanks to Gameboy, our son was a real trooper. Now we have a Nintendo fanatic! Svetlana has nicknamed him the "The GOLDEN Boy!". We were pleasantly shocked too, at how good he was through all those appointments. After being away from home for 53 days we were REALLY thankful to start the next chapter of our lives as a family of 4.

Now for the important stuff!

We arrived to get Kallie at 3 pm on Thursday! She had just woke up from her nap. We handed over our bag of clothes, they dressed her and handed her to us! What an emotional time! This is a great blessing to be given such a precious child to call our own! We headed for the train. Svetlana mentioned the 'first class' tickets on the express train and it was great. According to me (Jeremy) a MUCH more pleasant experience than the overnight - not first class ride out to Dnipro! We left Dnipro at 5 pm. For the first 3 hours we played, we ate supper (we packed food from our apartment), had our first diaper change, and put on the p.j's. At 8 pm both our kids fell asleep and Darryl and I just enjoyed our time. At 11 pm we arrived in Kiev. A driver picked us up, took us to a grocery store (Darryl ran in to pick up a few items for the morning), and then to the apartment that we've always stayed in. Both kids were wide awake and ready to play. We took some time to get them settled and then we put them to bed. Surprisingly they both fell asleep fast. They slept right through until about 8 this morning. We got up this morning had a bite to eat and headed to the mall to buy a stroller. After purchasing a stroller we went and picked up some groceries. We came back to the apartment and had lunch. Kallie is having her afternoon nap and Kaiden is getting in some Gameboy time. It has almost been 24 hours and "knock on wood" things are going GREAT!
Kallie is doing remarkably well! The only time that we have had tears is when we put her in the bath. Kaiden got in the tub first, and as soon as she was getting undressed her bottom lip came out. We went really slow but she still didn't want to be in there. That must have been one of the quickest baths on record. Hopefully tomorrow or tonight she will be more calm about it. When we put her in the stroller she looked at us funny but once the stroller started moving she was fine. She has eaten everything we have given her. She has fiqured out how to turn the lights on and off and that is a huge novelty for her. We are looking forward to the next few days so we can learn more about her.

Now that we are back in Kiev we only have the cell phone. We now have high speed internet so we are able to Skype anyone who is available (so leave your computers on people). We have Mario's restuarant that we can eat at. If only we had our P.E.I. friends to join us the time would pass by more quickly!

As for our travel plans home, we need a lot of prayers! We have been told that if all the documents were completed properly Kallie's passport would be in Dnipro on Wednesday! Our driver will then take it to the train and send it to us here in Kiev. On Thursday we will go to the Canadian Embassy and get Kallie's Visa. That means that our plans of leaving here on Friday February 13th are very possible - with prayers of course! Then we will be back in Saskatoon on Valentine's Day! We have an overnight stay in Toronto.

No pictures today,SORRY! It has just been a bit busy! We are hoping that on the weekend we will get some posted.

Thanks for being with us on this fantastic journey we feel truly blessed!

Love,

Darryl, Jeremy, Kaiden, & Kallie Deck

13 comments:

Basset's said...

Hello Decks;It's so awesome to hear from yous and we are so glad to hear that you started your journey home.It sounds like you will have many enjoyable days with your children as you's get to know your daughter.Kaiden is a trooper to be so patient,he will definetly enjoy being a big brother.We are still praying that we get to meet your Beautiful daughter on Valentines Day.Take care and God Bless you as you's continue your journey home.Lot's of Love The Basset's

mel said...

We are so thrilled to be hearing from you again! I can't imagine how it must feel to finally have her with you full time.I remember you talking about kaiden's first bath and sounds like a similar experience. We will keep the prayers going for your speedy return hopefully next week and in the meantime enjoy your time with the family. I know you will be busy when you get get back and we all will want to see you!! Mel, Kyle Jaiden and Jordyn.

Marg Polanik said...

Hi! WOW!! What fantastic news! I got teary-eyed reading your blog this morning. It is great news and I could only imagine the emotions that your family have felt over the last few days!! Kallie and Kaiden are so blessed for having God choose you as parents for them and vice versa!! I am so happy for you guys and my prayers will continue for your speedy return for Valentine's Day.

Shawna and Jon said...

am sooo happy for you all!!! had tears this am when jos called and told me she talked to you on skype-hoping to see you tomorrow morning!!! we were all worried about you but now we are just excited to see you all!!! i am still waiting to here from you dr.'s office with an app time for kallie, and have called twice since my initial call and been told they will get back to me. however, i am going to call again this a.m. during londyn's nap time! can't wait to chat with you:)
loads of hugs and kisses
the materis

Blaine and Lisa said...

CONGRATULATIONS, oficially on your brand new daughter!! WOW, I actually had to wipe tears so I could read the rest of your post, I am so happy for you Jeremy and Darryl and Kaiden and Kallie!! What a beautiful family, adventure and memories that you will treasure for EVER!! So glad that this Blog lets us in on all the fun!! We are praying for you guys for the easiest and smoothest last week!! Hopefully everything goes as planned and Valentines Day would be such a perfect day to introduce Kallie to the family!! SO EXCITING!! Love you guys tons, XOXO, Lisa

Shona & Darren & Ivanna said...

Yahoo!!! We are so thankful, joyfilled and truly rejoicing to read your latest post (with a few happy tears too). What wonderful news. We have to admit that we were a little concerned with no posts for a few days, but prayed that it was just a typical technical internet glitch rather than problems with last minute paper work. Praise God - you are finally all together:). We are thrilled to hear that the train trip went well and the first 24 hours together have gone smoothly. We will be praying that the passport and visa process also go smoothly and look forward to hearing of you arriving home on Valentines Day. Congratulations on the new addition to your family! Ivanna is looking forward to a playdate with Kaiden when you guys are ready.
Shona, Darren and Ivanna

Rhonda Baker said...

Congratulations!!!! I'll bet you can just "taste" your homecoming. Hang in there. I was actually tearing up as I read the blog. I hope you'll return with the kind of weather we have now...mild. It will be like meeting a celebrity when we meet Kallie. What a brave little boy Kaiden is..you should be so proud. Again, CONGRATULATIONS!!
Rhonda B.

Murray and Donna said...

We are so excited for you! The last round of paperchasing can take its toll, but its all worth it in the end to have that precious little one with you---for good! You are in our prayers for the next week for a speedy return home.
Take care,
Donna & Murray

Cindy Genest said...

Was so happy to finally hear from you. I too had tears.. reading about all your experiences. Today Lisa brought by Kate - Ben was adorable he had to hold her we took a picture. He had the cutest pout on when he was told he couldn't hold her anymore. We are all anxious to meet your Kallie, we feel like we know her already! Well had to check the blog as we are away for the weekend its my mom's birthday! HOw sweet to bring your little sweetheart home on Valentine's!!

Unknown said...

Congratulations finally 4 together. I can't get over how much they look like siblings. What a beautiful family. I will pray each day that Valentine's is a "Sweet" day in Canada!! I know how slow the paper work goes.
God bless you all and keep you safe and happy till you are in good ole Saskatoon again! I can hardly wait. Meaghan says "Hi" She misses you.

Linda C said...

I am so excited for all of you. I felt so happy reading your blog! It's too bad that you had a few stressful days. I agree, Kaiden must be "golden boy" to survive them. I've been sick with a flu, so life kind of sucks right now. Matthew made me a pizza, first food in two days!!! I hope to go back to work on Monday. I will continue to pray that you return home on Valentine's day. Enjoy ! Linda

Joan said...

Hi

What great news! Love your family picture. I am hoping all goes as planned and that you get home around Valentines Day. You have been on a very exciting journey, and soon that journey will continue right here in Saskatoon. Take Care & God Bless.

Joan

Kim said...

Such good news, even Heather has been following your journey! HOpe you have a safe and uneventful trip home. See you after the break with your little angel x2! (Don't come to school until WEdnesday as I'm away MON/TUES! TAke care & God Bless, Kim