Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Our Family of Three Becomes Four!

It's official!!! We are the PROUD parents of Kallie Frances Deck.

Our facilitator arrived at our apartment around 9:30 this morning to go over the court process. At 10:45 the driver picked us up. We went to the orphanage first to get a representative from there and then we were off to court. We arrived about 30 minutes early. The process began right on time. We were in court at 12:00 noon. The judge was a woman, the translator was a woman, the social worker was a woman, the prosecutor was a woman, the representative from the orphanage was a woman, the secretary was a woman, the jury was 2 women, Darryl was the only man in the room (Kaiden is a boy). Some of the questions that were asked of us included 1.Is your home big enough to accomodate a second child? 2. Do we have medical insurance?, Would Kallie be covered? 3. Why we don't have any biological children? 4. What would we do if we were to have a biological child now? 5. How big is your mortage and how long until it will be paid off? After 52 minutes the judge asked for a 3 minute recess to overloook everything. We were called back in and it was approved! We have been granted legal custody and we were given permission to change her name.
Now we have a 10 day wait. BAHUMBUG! We understand that in this region they don't count Sundays in the 10 wait so that means another delay and we don't get to pick up the final court's decision until Tues. Feb. 3rd.
Our facilitator hinted today that it would be easier to do the paper run (Birth Certificate, Passport documents, etc.) without Kallie. That means we wouldn't take Kallie out of the orphanage until Wed. or Thurs. that week. We'll have to wait and see!!!
Another delay that we could encounter is with Kallie's passport. Apparently we have to get the passport done here in Dnipro. We only go to Kiev to get the Canadian Visa from the Canadian Embassy. The past couple here (they're from France) having been waiting 8 days and still don't have their child's passport. Time will tell what kind of wait we will have. We know that our tentative plans of flying home on Feb. 7/8 weekend are unrealistic. Once we have talked to our facilitator more we will be able to get a better idea of when we'll be flying home. (this was the "downer" of the day!!) Today marks 5 weeks that we've been in Ukriane and we are getting very anxious to be back at home!
We did not go visit Kallie today because the day was just too busy! We will be back on track tomorrow with our visits.


12 comments:

Shawna and Jon said...

horrayyyyyy!!!! we are SO happy for you!!! we cannot wait for you to come home! however, it will only be a matter of time before you have kallie full time and once that happens, the wait will seem like seconds i'm sure! londyn was playing with wyatt the other day (he's just one and can walk now) and she followed him everywhere! they played so well together and all i could think of was how excited i am (and londyn will be) to have somebody around her age to play with! yay!!!!! well, you all have now just what you deserve and have waited for! congrats
loads of love
hugs and kisses
jon, shawna, and londyn.

Cindy Genest said...

Well I must say we are so excited and thrilled to see your family picture. I checked your blog in the L.A.T. room and had everyone gathered around Ben was so thrilled to see you Jeremy!! He was excited to see Kallie you know him and babies, and he babbled on for awhile, if only we knew what he had to say. Well it is a great day. Tonight is Lisa's baby shower for Kate. Again,that is such wonderful news!!

frifndepu said...

sorry jermemy just checking

frifndepu said...

Hi Jeremy and family!
Congratulations! YOur daughter Kallie is so beautiful and she seems perfect for your family!

I have enjoyed reading your adventures and admire your strength and courage!
Kudos to you, Darryl and Kaiden and of course little Kallie!

I miss you and your sassy ways Jeremy!

So happy for you and yours!

Hang in there!
We're all thinking of you and praying for you!

Enjoy your precious Kallie and family!

love,
brenda

Marg Polanik said...

Words can't even describe how happy I am for you guys!!!! You look like such a happy family! I can't believe how much Kaiden and Kallie look like you guys! I can only imagine how you felt when the judge announced her decision! What did Kaiden say? I bet it seems so long before Kallie can come with you but at least now it is a reality that you have 2 awesome children. So excited for you!!!! Have an awesome day!!!!

Tara L said...

I'm so happy for you!! What a great day! I love the picture of your family, it's beautiful! I hope the process goes quickly and smoothly for you so that you can come home! Take care.

Blaine and Lisa said...

HURRAY!! CONGRATULATIONS to a Beautiful family of 4!! That picture made me cry...and yoru blog...man you would think after 11 mos my horomones would calm down, i guess it is just in my nature!! So happy for you Jeremy, Darryl, Kaiden and Kallie!! YAY, you are on the downslide of this big adventure now!! XOXO, Lisa

Urban's said...

YEAH!YEAH!YEAH! Your family picture is fabulous. In reconciliation Charlee has been discussing a story about a boy who has been in many foster homes and finally one of the families adopt him. In the story they explain that the judge "sealed" the boy and "sealed" the papers. Then the judge said enjoy your family! Nothing you do can ever take you apart. When I told Charlee that you went to see the judge today she said, "Kallie is sealed, the judge sealed the papers and sealed Kallie." Tears came to my eyes because I knew exactly what she was talking about. Charlee said, "Mom remember this is a time to be happy no matter what happens Kallie will always be a part of our family, and there are lots of people to love her." It is profound sometimes what a seven year learns and says. I am not sure what I am going to do with all of the crafts and cards Charlee and Dalton have made for Kaiden and Kallie. I do not want to clutter up your house but I can't bring myself to garbage them. I guess they will just have to pick out their favorites. Hope you have a quick few days and I will call you on Saturday.

Kim said...

So happy for you today! It's my daughter's 18th today, it goes by so fast, little girls are so precious (so are boys, I have 2!. We had a shower for Lisa last night, what a little doll, can't wait to see the 2nd new dolly addition to our staff! Yeah!

Unknown said...

WOW! Congratulations. The next 10+days may drag but remember you have a whole lifetime with her. Hang onto that thought when it seems to be taking forever. Forever is how long you will be a beautiful family. I am so happy for you. Ben is too. He was in for his language lesson and saw the picture. He ohhhed and awwwed for sometime. When I explained that was your new baby he said something like Oh pretty!! He was so excited and just wanted to look at your picture......a good distraction from work!!
I will continue to pray all goes well without gliches. Give her a hug from us.

Rhonda Baker said...

Your first family portrait! Beautiful! I can't wait to meet Kallie in person. Congratulations!
Rhonda B.

Murray and Donna said...

Congratulations! And we offically welcome Kallie into your family! Hope the rest of your time goes smooth.

Take care,
Donna & Murray